Rehearsal Dinner

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What Is a Rehearsal Dinner?

The rehearsal dinner is a meal — typically dinner, though brunch or lunch formats are gaining popularity — held the evening before the wedding, traditionally following the ceremony rehearsal at the wedding venue. It serves as both a practical coordination opportunity (confirming ceremony timing, positions, and cues) and a celebratory gathering for the immediate families and wedding party. Traditionally hosted by the groom's family in American custom, the rehearsal dinner today is more often hosted by the couple or shared between families. Guest lists typically range from immediate family and the wedding party to an intimate group of out-of-town guests.

The Rehearsal Dinner in Modern Weddings

The rehearsal dinner is often described by couples as one of their most emotionally meaningful gatherings — an intimate, relaxed celebration the night before the biggest day of their lives. Toasts are typically given by the officiant, parents, siblings, and the best man/maid of honor. The rehearsal dinner is also the traditional occasion for the couple to give thank-you gifts to their wedding party.